Not A Boring Person

Sunday, August 27, 2017

I believe there is no such thing as a boring person.






In this video I watched, the only reason a person could be boring is because they were unable to fully communicate their real selves to others.

I believe people have layers to them in which knowing them could mean having to be patient in how we peel those layers one by one; which is why it takes a while to really get to know someone.

It may also be that the other person does not know how to appreciate the other person's perspectives. We have to remind ourselves that we don't have to please everyone, and in the end, your worth is not based on whether people think you are boring or not. Because no one is ever boring.

This is because we are always curious about how others perceive and experience the world, and it is always different for every individual. Whenever the person we talk to shares about how their day went, or about their thoughts on a certain topic, as we listen we show interest and we value whatever it is that the person shares with us because it is something unique about them.

This is why whenever we watch someone who talks about something they are passionate about, you can see how enthusiastic they are and we tend to feel excited as well, because suddenly we see them becoming animated and everything that comes out from their mouth seems to come to life.

This is how we add value to each other's life, how we shed light and see things differently through someone else's eyes. Our interactions with each person we encounter becomes even more special when we think this way, don't you think so?

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  1. Great post! I always worry that I'm too boring in other peoples' minds, but remember that we are all different and have our own ways of having fun.

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    1. Yes! Indeed, we are all different. We just all need to appreciate each other's uniqueness :)

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